Heads up! Are You A Person of Increase or Decrease in Your Family?
Being the leader(s) of your family, it’s essential to take a step back and understand the impact we have within our family unit. Are you contributing to its growth and happiness, or are you unintentionally contaminating your family’s ecosystem with too high of expectations? Or maybe too complacent?
Taking an honest look at ourselves isn’t easy, but it’s the only way to change for the better. We either over inflate our successes; stay stuck in our failures; or are in denial. The sweet spot is always somewhere in the middle. Life moves fast, and we often find ourselves consumed by our hectic schedules instead of how and where we spend our time.
If you feel defensive, it’s a great sign that you’ve struck upon something that needs balance. In this blog, I invite parents to detach from their pride and egos and explore the concept of being a person of "increase." By embracing this mindset, we can uncover the transformative power of truth and growth, and ultimately cultivate a more harmonious and thriving family environment.
The Power of Intangibles:
Being a person of increase goes beyond materialistic gestures; it encompasses a range of intangible qualities that can positively shape our family dynamics. By cultivating these qualities, we create an environment filled with respect, support, and encouragement. Start by being aware of your energy. Choose positivity and being present with your kids. Kick negativity, sarcasm, and cantankerousness to the curb. Show genuine interest in their daily activities, dreams, and challenges. Be an engaged listener, allowing them to express their thoughts and emotions without judgment or having to react. Create enjoyable conversations without offering your opinions. Respect their ideas and perspectives, and ask questions to learn more. By recognizing and celebrating their individuality, you empower them to value who they are.
Tangible Acts of Love:
While intangibles are essential, tangible acts of love are too, and can make a significant impact on your family's foundation. Simple gestures, like preparing their favorite meal, playing music they love, or surprising your kids with a huge hug just because. These types of acts not only brighten their day, but they also strengthen your relationships. By being a person of increase, you are leading by example, demonstrating your dedication to your family's well-being, and upholding your family’s values.
Leading by Example:
As parents, we have the unique opportunity to shape our children's values and beliefs through our own actions—not by words. By embodying the principles of being a person of increase, we empower our family to follow suit. Encourage your children's passions, hobbies, ideas, and interests, especially when they differ from your own. Support their endeavors and be their biggest cheerleader. By promoting their individuality, you empower them to step into their self-competence with great confidence.
The Ripple Effect of Increase:
Choosing to be a person of increase benefits not only your family, but also yourself. As you cultivate these qualities, you will witness a remarkable transformation within yourself. Your heart will expand with a greater capacity for love, your life will be filled with joy, and your home will be a place of prosperity. Embracing the mindset of increase brings forth a sense of fulfillment and purpose, reminding us of the incredible impact we can have on the lives of those we hold dear.
Choosing to be a person of increase within your family unit holds immeasurable value. As parents, let us lead by example to be present, supportive, and empowering, recognizing the innate gifts and talents within our kids. Choose to be a person of increase and witness the transformative power it brings to you and your family.
