Jill spills: Don’t Complain! You Installed Them!
‘Tis the season of family and friend gatherings as we hurtle towards the grand finale of 2023 in less than six weeks. Ah, the joy and chaos commence!
By now, I hope you’ve realized that the only person in charge of your peace is you. If you haven’t mastered protecting your peace, I offer you one of my favorite and infallible holiday hacks…By the way, this hack isn’t just for the holidays; it works in the everyday too.
Be as committed to your peace as you are to your insecurities. It’s a time-saver, mood-enhancer and joy-creator.
Jill spills: “I’m a Fun Person, Dammit!”
Don’t rob your kids of the best and most enjoyable parts of you. Be a wise and responsible parent of course, but also bring your smile, humor and lighthearted self out sooner and more often. Time is precious, and your family relationships are worth it!
Jill spills: Distracted? Yeah, no. I mean, yeah. What?
In an era dominated by the digital symphony of pings, dings, and notifications, our youth are grappling with a profound and pervasive pain—the insidious loneliness that stems from a world drowning in distraction. Yes, you might be too distracted to read this because anything that takes longer than a minute to consume, we get ants in our pants. If you have an extra 2 minutes, take a quick read… It will do your world some good.
Jill spills: Your Choice: Pain of Regret or Pain of Discipline?
In the journey of parenting, we often come across quotes that resonate with us on a deep level. One of my favorites is by Jim Rohn, which I believe has the power to shape not only our lives, but also the lives of our children: "We must all suffer from one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons."
Such a wow for me! I mean really, did you understand the power in that? Read it again and again until you do! In this blog, I’ll briefly touch on how and why discipline is a foundational component for all families.
Jill spills: Self-Smart is Life-Smart
As parents, we often prioritize academic excellence for our children, hoping it will lead to a better and more secure future. But true fulfillment extends way beyond the classroom. Life is every day, and how we show up each day will determine the quality of our lives. That's why it's essential for our kids to focus on developing self-smart skills which are ultimately, life-smart skills. These skills are the foundation for a purposeful and enjoyable life. In this post, I'll explore my top 4 self-smart skills for our youth and their immense value.
Jill spills: Confronting the Culture of Excess
In our consumer-driven-immediate-gratification society, family values often take a backseat to the pursuit of material possessions and impulsive consumption. With the ease of online consuming, we can instantly fulfill our desires, even when they are completely unnecessary.
Heads up! Are You A Person of Increase or Decrease in Your Family?
Choosing to be a person of increase within your family unit holds immeasurable value. As parents, let us lead by example to be present, supportive, and empowering, recognizing the innate gifts and talents within our kids. Choose to be a person of increase and witness the transformative power it brings to you and your family.
Jill spills: 7 Ways to Chillax and Create Peace with Family
Summer—the season of sunshine, lazy days, and quality time with your family and friends. As parents, it's easy to get caught up in the frenzy of daily life, leaving us yearning for a sense of peace and relaxation. In this blog, we'll explore 7 ways to chillax this summer by bringing out your inner peace and making not only you feel serene, but everyone in your family.