Jill spills: Don’t Complain! You Installed Them!
‘Tis the season of family and friend gatherings as we hurtle towards the grand finale of 2023 in less than six weeks. Ah, the joy and chaos commence!
By now, I hope you’ve realized that the only person in charge of your peace is you. If you haven’t mastered protecting your peace, I offer you one of my favorite and infallible holiday hacks…By the way, this hack isn’t just for the holidays; it works in the everyday too.
Be as committed to your peace as you are to your insecurities. It’s a time-saver, mood-enhancer and joy-creator.
Jill spills: “I’m a Fun Person, Dammit!”
Don’t rob your kids of the best and most enjoyable parts of you. Be a wise and responsible parent of course, but also bring your smile, humor and lighthearted self out sooner and more often. Time is precious, and your family relationships are worth it!
Jill spills: Distracted? Yeah, no. I mean, yeah. What?
In an era dominated by the digital symphony of pings, dings, and notifications, our youth are grappling with a profound and pervasive pain—the insidious loneliness that stems from a world drowning in distraction. Yes, you might be too distracted to read this because anything that takes longer than a minute to consume, we get ants in our pants. If you have an extra 2 minutes, take a quick read… It will do your world some good.
Jill spills: Your Choice: Pain of Regret or Pain of Discipline?
In the journey of parenting, we often come across quotes that resonate with us on a deep level. One of my favorites is by Jim Rohn, which I believe has the power to shape not only our lives, but also the lives of our children: "We must all suffer from one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons."
Such a wow for me! I mean really, did you understand the power in that? Read it again and again until you do! In this blog, I’ll briefly touch on how and why discipline is a foundational component for all families.
Jill spills: Support or Solution? That is the Question!
One of the most potent ways to build trust and forge a strong connection with our kids is by asking the right questions and truly listening to their responses.
Just last week, I was sharing a coffee with my 22-year-old daughter who was home for a visit. I asked if I could discuss some thoughts with her, never anticipating her response. Her question was simple, yet it carried an extraordinary impact, instantly infusing respect, and thoughtfulness.
In this blog, I share the question she asked that holds the potential to revolutionize the way parents connect with their kids.
Jill spills: Make Your Whoops Matter!
Parenting… Talk about a never-ending character-building experience. No matter how much we prepare, or think “I’ve got this”, we are humbled, and will inevitably eat crow again, and again. Look, mistakes happen. But what if I told you that these stumbles and failures are some of the greatest ways to teach your kids? Yes, you read that right! In this blog post, I’ll briefly touch on why embracing our missteps, and mistakes is a powerful tool for raising resilient, wise, and compassionate kids who will become healthy, kind, and self-competent adults.
Jill spills: Confronting the Culture of Excess
In our consumer-driven-immediate-gratification society, family values often take a backseat to the pursuit of material possessions and impulsive consumption. With the ease of online consuming, we can instantly fulfill our desires, even when they are completely unnecessary.
Heads up! Are You A Person of Increase or Decrease in Your Family?
Choosing to be a person of increase within your family unit holds immeasurable value. As parents, let us lead by example to be present, supportive, and empowering, recognizing the innate gifts and talents within our kids. Choose to be a person of increase and witness the transformative power it brings to you and your family.
Jill spills: 7 Ways to Chillax and Create Peace with Family
Summer—the season of sunshine, lazy days, and quality time with your family and friends. As parents, it's easy to get caught up in the frenzy of daily life, leaving us yearning for a sense of peace and relaxation. In this blog, we'll explore 7 ways to chillax this summer by bringing out your inner peace and making not only you feel serene, but everyone in your family.
Jill spills: The Ultimate Parent ROI: Investing Wisely in Your Children
By prioritizing the development of healthy, kind, competent, and contributing individuals, we can create a more compassionate and harmonious world. It's time to redirect our attention toward the ROI of our parenting efforts and make our children and their well-being the greatest investment in our lives. Let’s shed some light on 7 wise and clever ways parents can invest in their children for a lifetime of remarkable dividends.